On my way home from hermosa, I had an incredible yet simple realization...more of a reminder.... I am valid.
To whoever is reading this, I want you to know what ever you feel is okay. Dont try to say or be anything you are not. Often times, we look back on past moments and conversations..and we wish it went differently. We wish we were stronger, bolder, or softer. No, please dont wish anything differently because what ever you felt and said in that moment was true. Your truth. Dont wish your truth away. It does not matter what society says or thinks about how you should be in a given situation. When you speak from your heart its valid because your heart is you and you are valid.
Thoughts run through my head...gosh I said too much, I was too nice, I was unclear, I should have been colder here, I should have been sweeter in that moment though...NO NO NO...Dont do that to yourself. Dont torture yourself because I have learned, whatever I said, its my true self, unplanned, unrestricted...whatever they gave me, I responded and that response is legitimate no matter what it was. ahhhh blabbbing.
